Human beings thrive because of relationships. It is an essential aspect of every individual’s life. From your personal to professional relationships, all of them have a significant impact on your emotional stability. The disturbance of an unstable relationship can spill over to other areas and erode peace and happiness.
Using these simple sentences in our daily life can ensure that we communicate in the best possible manner and nurture our relationships.
1. Thank you for…
Dealing with the same people daily can sometimes lead us to take them for granted. Their contributions to our life go unnoticed until the other person stops doing it. Giving those small but loving tasks the needed attention is necessary. It can be your mom taking care of your food, your husband giving you a massage, the liftman taking you to your floor, the cleaner cleaning your office, and other similar things.
It is vital to take care that thanking them doesn’t become a mere formality for you. Avoid making a routine habit of uttering the two overused words, “Thank you.” Instead, express your gratitude whenever your heart says. Thank them for making your life easier, more convenient, and more comfortable.
- Thank you for always keeping cleanliness in this space.
- Thank you for delivering delicious food to us.
2. I am sorry, what can I do to improve?
Human beings make mistakes, and it’s perfectly normal to mess up sometimes. However, it is not normal to act as if nothing happened. When it seems that somebody has been highly disturbed by your action, it becomes necessary to communicate. An apology is a first and foremost thing to start with. However, repeating a mistake and apologizing is a pattern that a lot of people fall into.
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Immediately after an apology, what comes next is the change. It is said that changed behavior is the best apology. For a long-lasting relationship, coming to a mutually beneficial solution is a MUST. Asking the other person about what can be done not to repeat this can help avoid further conflicts.
- I am sorry you felt that way, however, what can I do to improve?
- I am sorry you were hurt, what can I do to not make you feel like that again?
3. You did a wonderful job…
The human mind is a master at finding and expressing flaws. But a little weak at appreciating. Whenever we don’t like someone’s behavior or habit, we are quick to express our dislike. However, when we find something good, we keep it to ourselves. Try this habit of finding one good thing about people you live with or meet daily.
It can be anything from their professional work, food habits, clothing, or anything else. Express the fantastic job they have done in dressing, speaking, cooking, or living. A slight appreciation might not be a big deal, but the other person will remember it for the rest of the day.
Bonus – Try appreciating a stranger for simple things whenever you find something beautiful. Many people spread hatred and anger, and sharing the energy of appreciation and positivity should not be limited to only known people.
- You did a wonderful job by sharing your lunch today, the parathas were yummy.
- You did a wonderful job with your clothing, this color looks beautiful on you.
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4. Would you please…?
We are all interdependent. No individual can live without the help and support of people around. Sometimes we ask for help, and sometimes people help by themselves. However, whenever it is our turn to ask for help, it shouldn’t sound like an order. No one likes being told what to do, right? To be precise, no one likes obeying orders. However, everyone loves when they are requested.
Begin with a request when you need a favor because the chances of a positive response increase when you request instead of ordering. Whether it’s something simple like turning off the lights or something important like needing personal space, requesting does wonder.
- Would you please get me a glass of water?
- Would you please allow me a few moments of solitude?
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5. What can I do to….?
In life, we go through different kinds of pain, from losing a loved one to losing a job and many others. Almost all of us have experienced everything. However, when you see your loved one going through some pain, it can be hard for you to help. Their silence and behavior can confuse you about what you can do, and an action initiated to help might sometimes hurt them.
In such situations, ask them what you can do to help them. This makes it much easier for them to express their needs and for you to help them comfortably.
- I understand how you might be feeling, what can I do to help you?
- I know it is hard, what can I do to make you feel better?
These sentences will help you keep your relationships smooth and more profound. Communication is the key to every relationship, and open communication is a must when you intend to preserve authenticity and transparency alive.
The statements are open to being tweaked based on the situations and incidents you face with your near and dear ones.